November 12, 2024
If there’s one thing 30+ years in leadership and entrepreneurship have taught me, it’s that leadership is a lot like creating a great album. There are highs, lows, breakthrough singles, and the occasional B-side that became a hidden hit. And just like in the music industry, there are lessons I wish I’d known earlier — principles that would have saved time, money, stress, and maybe a little sanity along the way.
So, I’ve put together a Leadership Bucket List. These are not just nice-to-haves. They’re the “Grammy-winning” practices every leader should have in their toolkit if they’re aiming for sustained, long-term success — the kind that doesn’t just get you a standing ovation but leaves a legacy. Let’s dive in!
1. Listening with Intention: The Secret Track to Success
We’ve all heard the phrase “listen to understand, not to respond.” But listening with intention goes deeper than that – It’s Conscious Listening. It’s not just about understanding words; it’s about tuning into the energy behind them, picking up the notes people aren’t playing out loud. Imagine you’re producing a song — every word, pause, and inflection matters. A great leader does the same with their team. They listen for the quiet fears, the unspoken ideas, and the hesitation in a voice. Why?
Because true listening transforms. It’s how you build trust that stands the test of time. It’s the difference between having a team that performs well and a team that will go the extra mile because they feel truly heard.
Pro Tip: Schedule listening sessions with your team — no agendas, no goals, just space for open conversation. Trust me, you’ll be surprised by what emerges when you hit “play” and let others take the lead.
2. Integrity is Non-Negotiable: The Backbone of Your Business
If leadership were a melody, integrity would be the baseline. You might think that small lapses don’t matter — bending the truth here, a little corner-cutting there — but those “tiny” decisions create feedback loops that can echo for years. A lack of integrity doesn’t just hurt your reputation; it slowly erodes your business, your mental peace, and your credibility.
Think of integrity as the one song you don’t skip in the album of your career. It’s always there, providing structure and stability, even if it’s not the flashiest track. Every single decision, no matter how minor, is a verse in that song. If the rhythm falters, the whole piece can fall apart – like a jenga tower!
Pro Tip: Keep yourself whole and complete – keep your word and fix your mistakes. When your choices are guided by integrity, you’ll sleep easier and lead better.
3. Accountability is a Duet: Own Your Outcomes
Accountability isn’t a solo act; it’s a duet, and the two partners are Responsibility and Ownership. It’s not enough to simply assign tasks — leaders must own the outcomes. If your team falls short, you’re in it together. If they hit it out of the park, you’re both on stage for the encore.
One of the hardest lessons I learned was that you can’t delegate accountability. You can share it, you can coach it, but you can’t pass it off like a baton. Accountability is the duet that separates the one-hit wonders from the legends.
Pro Tip: When things go wrong (and they will), own it. Even if it wasn’t directly your fault, owning the outcome and learning from it turns every misstep into a chance for a comeback.
Bonus Tracks from the Leadership Vault:
4. Curiosity Never Gets Old:
Curiosity isn’t just for kids — it’s the key to staying relevant. A curious leader asks questions and seeks new ways to innovate. It’s what keeps your leadership fresh and your strategies adaptable. Make curiosity your favorite track on repeat.
Pro Tip: Set aside time each month to learn something outside your industry. The most revolutionary ideas often come from unexpected sources.
5. Understanding is the X-Factor:
Leadership isn’t about being nice; it’s about understanding others. Conscious listening creates space for the tough conversations and helps you navigate the emotional rollercoaster of business. It’s not a weakness; it’s your greatest strength.
Pro Tip: Before making a big decision, take a moment to consider how it impacts your team. Sometimes, what you don’t say is as powerful as what you do.
6. Courage to Fail Forward:
The best leaders aren’t the ones who avoid failure; they’re the ones who lean into it, learn, and pivot quickly. Each misstep is a new chord in your leadership song — one that brings depth and texture to the music you create.
Pro Tip: Share your failures, not just your successes. It builds trust and shows your team that perfection isn’t the goal; growth is.
What’s Next for You?
You’ve got your leadership bucket list, but this is only the beginning. Leadership isn’t about ticking boxes — it’s about crafting an album that you’re proud of, one where each track has meaning, impact, and purpose. It’s not about how many followers you have or how often you’re in the spotlight; it’s about the quality of the connections you build and the legacy you leave behind.
As we look ahead to 2025, these principles will be at the heart of every workshop I lead. This isn’t just theory — it’s a roadmap I wish I had when I was starting out. I’m excited to pass it on to the next generation of leaders who are ready to play their own unique track.
So, what’s on your Leadership Bucket List? Whether you’re a seasoned leader or just starting out, remember: you don’t have to get it right every time, but you do have to keep playing. And when you lead with intention, integrity, and accountability, you won’t just make a difference — you’ll make music.
Final Thoughts
Leadership, like any great album, is a mix of improvisation, creativity, and discipline. It’s about finding your voice and then amplifying the voices of others. So, take these lessons, apply them in your own leadership, and watch as you transform from a solid performer into a leader who hits all the right notes, every time.
Now, go out there and make your own Greatest Hits.
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